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How to Maintain Intimacy When You are Not in the Mood for Sex

I have gone through several sexual dry spells in my lifetime. During these times, I was so uninterested in having sex that my partner would get worried and even slightly offended. And I was, too. Offended at my own body, that is. I mean, I love my partner and find him attractive so why did sex of any kind feel like a no-go? I didn’t even want to try to be turned on, if I’m being honest. My mind was elsewhere and my body just wanted to be left alone.

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Topics: sex, arousal, communication, marriage, Sex & Relationships, Maintaining the Spark, mindfulness, desire

Bringing Ritual Back to Relationships


I just read t his funny story about a couple’s weird little ritual and it got me thinking. I’m always dwelling on the things my husband and I used to do before having children, like eating out whenever we want, sleeping in on weekends, having sex all the time (well, it seems like that in retrospect).
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Topics: sex, arousal, romance, relationship, Mind & Body, marriage, mindfulness, desire, sexy

Fiera vs Fifty Shades

Fiera® arouser approaches arousal differently from steamy romance novels. Fiera is all physical, creating engorgement with a brilliant combination of suction and vibration.

But for a lot of women—and men—visual and mental stimulation arouses us too. The Business of Consumer Book Publishing statistics show over $1 billion in romance and erotica sales in 2012, and that’s before Fifty Shades burst onto the scene in 2013. That book alone sold more than 125 million copies. Should you be getting aroused with dirty stories too? Which is better? Fiera® or Fifty Shades?

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Topics: sex, arousal, Mind & Body, libido, Sex & Relationships, Fiera Experts

How to Speak to Your Wife About Intimacy

Dear Jane,

Can I talk to you about something? I’m a little nervous to talk to you about this. This is hard for me.

First, I miss you and I love you. I miss our time together where we can be intimately playful and vulnerable with each other. I miss the mutual satisfaction of a connection between us that only we can have. I miss our closeness both emotionally and physically. I miss our sexual connections.

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Topics: arousal, couples, aging, Sex & Relationships, desire

Dear Jane—A Letter to my Sweetie

Dear Jane,

Can I talk to you about something? I’m a little nervous to talk to you about this. This is hard for me.

First, I miss you and I love you. I miss our time together where we can be intimately playful and vulnerable with each other. I miss the mutual satisfaction of a connection between us that only we can have. I miss our closeness both emotionally and physically. I miss our sexual connections.

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Topics: arousal, couples, aging, Sex & Relationships, desire

Learn, Relax, and Have Some Fun: Getting Comfortable with Fiera

Fiera® arouses you by concentrating on the sexual anatomy on the outside of your body, which is one of the things I love about it.

It really has nothing to do with menstruation, and unlike a tampon, the Fiera arouser does not go inside your body. But when I think of what worked—and what didn’t—about my first tampon experience, I realize that learning to use Fiera reminds me of learning to use tampons. 

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Topics: arousal, Fiera Experts

The Truth Behind the “G-Spot” Orgasm

What is your G-spot, and is it worth exploring?

For many women, the quest for the elusive G-spot orgasm has taken on mythic proportions. Reports of this vaginally-activated orgasm describe sensations that are different, and often more intense, than those achieved by stimulation of the clitoris. In reality, most women experience orgasms through stimulation of the clitoris only. However, women who have failed in their efforts to achieve the “G-spot orgasm” may experience a sense of inferiority or lowered sexual self-esteem. Here is the dilemma: debate continues among researchers as to whether or not the G-spot actually exists. 

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Topics: sex, arousal, Sex Talk, Fiera Experts

Fiera vs Fifty Shades

Fiera® arouser approaches arousal differently from steamy romance novels. Fiera is all physical, creating engorgement with a brilliant combination of suction and vibration.

But for a lot of women—and men—visual and mental stimulation arouses us too. The Business of Consumer Book Publishing statistics show over $1 billion in romance and erotica sales in 2012, and that’s before Fifty Shades burst onto the scene in 2013. That book alone sold more than 125 million copies. Should you be getting aroused with dirty stories too? Which is better? Fiera® or Fifty Shades?

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Topics: sex, arousal, Mind & Body, libido, Sex & Relationships, Fiera Experts
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