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Bringing Ritual Back to Relationships


I just read t his funny story about a couple’s weird little ritual and it got me thinking. I’m always dwelling on the things my husband and I used to do before having children, like eating out whenever we want, sleeping in on weekends, having sex all the time (well, it seems like that in retrospect).
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Topics: sex, arousal, romance, relationship, Mind & Body, marriage, mindfulness, desire, sexy

Dry Spells Are Normal

I’ll be the first to admit that I’m something of a black-and-white, all-or-nothing thinker—one little setback and suddenly everything’s all over. I have that dieter’s mentality where you succumb to one little cookie early in the day, and then, at that point, why not eat everything in sight and start again tomorrow?

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Topics: sex, couples, romance, relationship, Mind & Body, Sex & Relationships, desire, sexy

Sexy is an Attitude

Sure, losing those last 10 pounds might feel great—but it's not the key to feeling sexy. The truth is that sexiness is an attitude, not a look. When you're comfortable and confident in your own skin, those around you will automatically react to that attitude. And when you bring all that confidence to bear on the bedroom? Nothing's stopping you, baby!

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Topics: Mind & Body, Sex & Relationships, sexy

Learn to Love Your Sexual Self After Cancer

Intimacy and sex may be the last thing on your mind if you are a women undergoing treatment for cancer. However, a healthy sex life is important to your healing process as you reclaim your life after treatment.

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Topics: sex, Fiera Experts, sexy, Cancer, breast cancer, survivorship

Imagery Exercise to Improve Your Self Body Image for a Better Sex Life

Sensuality is defined as the enjoyment and expression of sexual pleasure. Words associated with sensuality are sexiness, sensual attractiveness, sultriness and seductiveness. But, how many women today actually feel sexy, sultry or seductively confident?While giving a talk about sensuality to an audience of women, I asked the women to close their eyes and see a simple image in their minds, an image of an every day occurrence. “See that you are looking at yourself naked in front of a full length mirror. Look at your face and body. Are you happy with what you see?

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Topics: Mind & Body, Sex & Relationships, Fiera Experts, sexy

In Defense of Lipstick and High Heels: 5 Tricks Sex Workers Use When They're Feeling Less Than Sexy

Nobody feels sexy all the time, not even sex workers. I spent a short time in the sex industry, but I managed to try out a wide range of sexy gigs and support roles, from selling lingerie to posing for pictures. Though I haven’t worked in the sex industry in more than a decade, I still use some of the tricks of the trade when I just don’t feel as sexy as I want to.

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Topics: romance, Sex & Relationships, sexy

Step by Step: What a Writer Can Teach you About Sex

I love writing about sex, but I also have a day job. As the Sexy Grammarian, I help other writers finish big projects. It’s a teaching job and a collaborator-for-hire job. I work in a wide range of genres, from poetry and fiction to marketing copy and dissertations.

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Topics: romance, relationship, Sex & Relationships, sexy

Imagery Exercise to Improve Your Self Body Image for a Better Sex Life

Sensuality is defined as the enjoyment and expression of sexual pleasure. Words associated with sensuality are sexiness, sensual attractiveness, sultriness and seductiveness. But, how many women today actually feel sexy, sultry or seductively confident?While giving a talk about sensuality to an audience of women, I asked the women to close their eyes and see a simple image in their minds, an image of an every day occurrence. “See that you are looking at yourself naked in front of a full length mirror. Look at your face and body. Are you happy with what you see?

Read More
Topics: Mind & Body, Sex & Relationships, sexy

Sexy is an Attitude

Sure, losing those last 10 pounds might feel great—but it's not the key to feeling sexy. The truth is that sexiness is an attitude, not a look. When you're comfortable and confident in your own skin, those around you will automatically react to that attitude. And when you bring all that confidence to bear on the bedroom? Nothing's stopping you, baby!

Read More
Topics: Mind & Body, Sex & Relationships, sexy
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